Tidbit Time

Are you living your life for you? Or are you living it for others.... to fulfill their expectations, limitations and/or fears?

Tidbit Time

No matter how much you want something, you can't force it to happen. It'll happen in it's own time or none at all.

Quote Today

"In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities."

Janos Arnay

A Tidbit

Beauty is in everything. You just need to know where to look to find it!

Power Behind A Word

What does no mean to you? Is it the worst word in the world? Do you cringe when you hear it? Or is it that you just don't want to hear it all? I mean it's only a two letter word. N-O I'll be honest it hasn't been my fave word to hear in the past.

However, let's change what it means and signifies for ourselves. From this moment on, I look at no as N for nice and O for opportunities. So, no means nice opportunities ahead somewhere else than here instead what it use to mean for me which was roadblock!

Quote Today

"I dream my painting, then I paint my dream. "

Vincent Van Gogh

I'm Back!!!

After a short break, don't we all need those? I'm back I'm happy to say. I am enjoying life.  There have been a lot of changes. Great changes... I'm an auntie now! Amazing! I can tell you. I knew for nine months that was going to happen but it wasn't until my niece actually made her appearance in the world that it really became concrete.  It just opened up a lot of things for me to realize and a whole lot of love.  I just started to look at the world as maybe she would be seeing it.  There is such innocence and joy with children.  They help you to have a new perspective of life and everything around you.

New Description

Paraphrasing Judy Garland, I've decided to be a first rate version of myself instead of a second rate version of someone else. I know I'm great in the highest sense (please know I'm not being conceited). I forget that sometimes with everything I get bombarded with and just life in general. However, I just pick myself up, dust myself off, and start all over again. In the last bit, I'm paraphrasing Fred Astaire or is it Ginger Rodgers in Swing Time in a musical number they did. (Great movie!!)

Quick Note

Hello Everyone!!!

I'm in a great mood. I'm letting go everything. Change begins from within... ponder that for a little while.

Quick Note...

You are always changing but are you always transforming? That is the better question.

A Tidbit

Shit happens... Choose not to go into reaction! That doesn't mean that you're in denial. It means that you're looking at the issue at hand without your emotions playing havoc with you. You are not your emotions. It's really up to you to find out who you are, get clear, and then put into action what to do.

Don't meditate on your problems... Don't stay and focus on them... Get moving pass Go & collect your $200. There will be something to be grateful for somewhere...

Stumbled Upon

Here's something that I just read:

If you don't want anyone to know, don't do it

I don't know who said it but boy don't we all need that to flash through our minds sometimes? It could probably save us a lot of grief in our lives. I know it will for me in the future. I can't do anything about the past... Lessons learned.

Quote Today

Here's one that I like well I've come to like a lot of her sayings...

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

Eleanor Roosevelt

Quote Today

I've decided to add quotes or things that inspire me and hopefully will inspire you. Here's the first one...

Act as if it were impossible to fail.

Dorothea Brande

In Honor of Valentine's

Here's something I've been thinking lately especially with Valentine's Day here.... Do you notice how in today's society mainly mainstream media if I want to be alone as a woman there's something just not right with you. You should be out there looking for someone to complete you. You should be in a relationship. Well, I'm alone with no relationship either which I guess I described by saying that I'm alone. However, you can be alone even when you're in a relationship (it's just not the right relationship for you).



I'm bombarded with all these commercials and adverts that tell me about the joy of being in a relationship which I'm not doubting. There is a part of me that thinks that relationships are great. Here's the deal, I want to deal with (I'm not going to say fix) all the things that I have in my life before I get into a relationship. I don't know if I'm ready for a serious commitment. Chronologically, I might be in my late twenties but I feel like I'm 21. Hopefully, I look it too! I don't want a man to complete me. Trust me, I swooned when Tom Cruise said it Renee Zellweger in Jerry Maguire. Honestly, I wanted that so bad for myself as a teenager and didn't see how that would happen. After all, isn't there always a hint of disbelief that runs through your mind that anything like that could happen in reality. Well, it ran through my mind.



Upon reflection here is what I decided on, I'm going to concentrate on loving me in the highest sense. This isn't a place where I'm conceited or anything but where I look at myself and say "I love you." How can I expect someone else to love me and I don't love and treasure myself. I've stopped looking outside of myself for fulfillment. It's something incredible and a wonderful process that's interesting. I will spend the rest of my life learning to love every facet of me. When I love myself and I'm open to love then love will come into my life. I'm going to take action when nudged like going out on a date and be clear on what I want out of my love life. However, until then I'm just going to be dating myself! How come there can't be any commercials or adverts for that?